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On Having Cake and Trying to Eat It

Mother in law to be cried last night and told D00d and I that we are changing her life's goal, that no one consulted her when we made the decision that she would be obligated to another 5 years of raising another Kiddo (mine) and that we don't help her with her projects, and that she's been waiting for years to do these things and she won't ever get to do them.

Ad nauseum for two months.

Honestly, I'm getting rid of practically everything I own just to move into this home, and it quite clear that we aren't welcome and that someone wants to play martyr for the next God knows how long.

I am seriously considering telling her to fuck off. She can have the house and all that goes with it. See how fucking far she gets on her own. The ONLY reason we're moving in there instead of out on our own like normal people is to help HER reach her goal. But the goal post keeps on moving back and then it's Woe is Me I'm a Victim.

Well, the world doesn't work like that, lady. Either we gladly and with love help you accomplish your goal and ours, together, or you find a way to reach them independently.

7:51 am - 06.01.09
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